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Trevor Kott ~ Born October 14th, 2006 ~ At Rest on April 25th, 2007

 For those of you who have been reading my blogs, quite a few weeks ago a little boy named Trevor Kott found his way into my heart.

Trevor was born on October 14th, 2006,with a very rare type of cancer called AML (Acute Myeloid Leukemia).  He endured 5 rounds of chemotherapy in hopes of keeping the cancer at bay until a compatible bone marrow donor could be found.  As time went on and no donor could be located, and Trevor grew more ill.

In his short, but meaningful life, Trevor summoned up the good in people.  He challenged strangers to answer a call to be good to each other; to take care of one another. 

He made us take notice that, yes... one person can make a difference. 

It is with great sadness and a heavy heart that I tell you, God called Trevor home this morning. 

Some people search their entire lives in the pursuit of happiness, scurrying to fulfill a purpose, and struggling to understand the meaning of their lives.  Trevor did all of that with what little time he had with all of us here on earth.

Trevor is a messenger.  Countless lives will no doubt be saved because of the spirit of giving that Trevor invoked at the drives held in his honor. 

Please remember the Kott family in your prayers as they mourn the loss of their sweet baby.  May Heaven hold him tight tonight.

 

53 commentsJulie Ferenzi • April 25 2007 05:33PM

Comments

May God accept the soul of Trevor Kott into heaven and grant comfort to his family.

He was a beautiful child, I'm sure his family misses him terribly.  They are angels themselves for the work they put into raising awareness about bone marrow transplants.  I'm so sorry a match wasn't found for Trevor.

I am sorry.  I'm still going to get tested to be a donor.  I wanted to do this in the past, but Trevor has really put it in my heart.  I hope it gives his family comfort to know that -- their efforts have probably saved many others.

I'm sorry, Julie.

Posted by Sarah Cooper (Real Estate Shows) over 3 years ago

There are no words that will take away the pain you and Trevor's family are feeling.  I pray that God will grant you and his family peace and comfort, strength, and an awareness of His awesome love.  We can't understand many of the "why's" of this earth.  One thing I do know is that God loves us too much to waste our pain.  He notices, cares, and somehow will get you all through this.   I am so sorry for the pain you feel.

Posted by Lea Deo, Shawnee Ks Real Estate, Shawnee Mission Homes (Keller Williams Legacy) over 3 years ago
I am so sorry to hear about Trevor and my condolences are with you and his family.  They say that souls have a role in this world, no matter how short the visit.  My prayers will be with you.
Posted by Rick & Ines - Miami Beach Real Estate (Majestic Properties) over 3 years ago

I am very sorry to hear of Trevor's loss. God be with him.

Posted by Ken Jansen REALTOR, CRS, 913.908.2215 (Keller Williams Realty Partners, Inc.) over 3 years ago

Julie....  I just don't have much to say, because I can't see now. Yes, this has brought tears to my eyes. Overall....  I have never lost someone dear to me so young in age. My prayers thoughts and prayers go out to Trevor, his family, and anyone that tried to help out.  Thanks for sharing this...

 

Posted by Jeff Belonger-The FHA Expert - FHA Loans - FHA mortgages - USDA loans - VA Loans ( - FHA Home Loans - Infinity Home Mortgage Company, Inc) over 3 years ago

It is said that when a person goes on to the next life, they no longer feel the pain that we experiance in this life. May this child rest in peace, and never again feel the pain he experiance in this life. Iam sure that he knows how much his family loved him and continues to love him, this is the only thing that will continue to strengthen our spirts and his soul.  

GOD BE WITH HIM.  

Posted by Edward over 3 years ago

Please know you have our prayers for your and Trevor's family as you all miss him.  A life well lived is not measured in the number of days, but in the quality and blessing we bring to others.  Thank you for including us in your honor of Trevor's life.  Virtual hugs for you.

 

Posted by JudyAnn Lorenz, Virtual Assistant (Bar JD Communications) over 3 years ago
We need to pray for this family. I can't imagine anything as devestating as losing a child. Pray that they will have peace knowing Trevor never has to be stuck or hurt any more and that he will be waiting for them when they make it home.
Posted by Linda Scanlan (A Fan of AR) over 3 years ago
My heart goes with you and Trevor's family.
Posted by Kelly Taylor - Taylor Realty Services over 3 years ago
Our small platitudes can comfort, but not fill the hole left by a tiny giant soul.  We will be blessed by knowing of his bravery and beauty
Posted by Paula Walter. Ph.D. e-Pro REALTOR (Realty Executives of Kansas City) over 3 years ago

 Julie,

God bless you and the Kott family, we are sorry for your loss

 

Posted by Wilmington Real Estate 4U over 3 years ago
Julie-You know my thoughts....I'm so sorry.
Posted by Florida Real Estate Trainer | Daytona Beach After School Training | Midori (Coastal Results Referral Company) over 3 years ago

Julie...

I know this has touched you deeply, as well as many other people.

You and the Kott family will be in our prayers.

 

Fran

Posted by Kansas City North Real Estate :: Fran White 816-682-3897 (North Kansas City Real Estate, Reece and Nichols Residential) over 3 years ago
Julie - I tried going back through your link to Trevor, but it wouldn't work. You may want to check it out.
Posted by Sharon Simms St Pete FL - CRS CIPS CLHMS RSPS (ALVA International, Inc.) over 3 years ago
Very sorry to hear, it's people who leave this world far to early that make some of the largest impact on the lives that they have touched. Although he was young, I'm sure that he improved the lives of people around him, even though this is a sad time. I would like to express my deepest sympathy for your loss on behalf of myself and my family. Hang in there.
Posted by Luther Harrity - Saint John, Rothesay, Hampton, New Brunswick Real Esate (Royal LePage Atlantic/Harrity Real Estate Services) over 3 years ago

Such a precious little one is now with God, i pray for the family and friends. i'm very sorry for their loss. may this powerful little one inspire others to come forward and help the cause. My more sincere condolences.

Posted by Nick M -RealtorĀ®-Appraiser in West Palm- South Florida Real Estate Appraiser (Certified Residential Appraiser- West Palm Beach Real Estate) over 3 years ago
Julie, when my wife came into my office today, tears streaming down her face, unable to speak, I knew what had happened. You and I have talked about this already. His life reinforces the truth that people not only matter, they are all that matters. We're obviously going to go forward with the drive we had planned here in Santa Clarita. Martin and others have helped so much. His life will be honored that day! You can count on that.
Posted by Jeff Turner (Real Estate Shows) over 3 years ago

Thank you everyone who has responded in such a heartfelt way.

Thank you Sharon for letting me know the link to his site was not working.  I have fixed it and it should be working correctly now. 

 

Posted by Julie Ferenzi (CENTURY 21 Hometown) over 3 years ago
Julie~ Little Trevor was from my neck of the woods, and his story touched me deeply, and has for quite a while. I hadn't heard the news today until reading this and it made me realize how many people he had touched. He is truly a little angel. The Kott family and You, are in my thoughts and prayers.
Posted by Real Estate Virtual Assistant Laura Monroe (Creative Agent Solutions.com (916)343-3823) over 3 years ago
Julie - It is God's amazing and mysterious ways that can have such a small, little life touch lives in such enormous, and overwhelming ways.  Please relay to the Kott family what is happening here on the rain.  Let them know that their are many, many people who are grieving with them and praying for peace and contentment to enter into their hearts.  May they feel God's grace and reassurance for all of their days.  What a blessing you have given them with all of this support.  Julie, that is invaluable.
Posted by Virginia Halter ABR, CDPE, CRS, GREEN, SFR, SRES (RE/MAX Signature Properties) over 3 years ago
My heart truly goes out to his family.  I have a 2 year old and can't even imagine the pain.
Posted by Burbank Real Estate Agent Ana Connell (Keller Williams Realty) over 3 years ago

Julie,

How sad for you and Trevor's family.  I can see what a sweet, happy child he was living a life that many of us will never experience.  As God's Word says "The last battle to be won will be death".  Take some comfort in knowing Trevor has won that battle, he is where we all strive to call home!

 

Posted by Nancy Siau, RealtorĀ® Selling Coastal SC (Vintage Estates Realty an exclusive affiliate of Christie's ) over 3 years ago

Virginia, I will do just that!  I want them to know that Trevor is still making a difference and still touching peoples lives. 

I ask that if my fellow Active Rain members feel inclined to be moved by the memory of Trevor Kott, that they seek out the next available bone marrow drive in their area. 

The cost for testing is being waived from May 7th through May 21st in honor of the Thanks Mom campaign at the National Bone Marrow Registry.  Get tested so that what happened to Trevor and the Kott family... doesn't happen to anyone else. 

 

 

Posted by Julie Ferenzi (CENTURY 21 Hometown) over 3 years ago
Julie, Thank you for a heart felt post and a wonderful message from Trevor.  He was obviously an angel from God.  Everything you wrote in your post is in scripture.  My prayer is that everyone will stop looking to this world and start reading and applying scripture.  One of my favorite scriptures reads "Love one another as my Father has loved you"
Posted by George Tallabas - Idaho Real Estate (RE/MAX Advantage) over 3 years ago
Julie, Thank you for working so hard to raise awareness in this type of childhood cancer and for becoming involved in Trevors short, sweet but oh so meaningful life. I hope this drive comes our way so I can get tested also. My prayers also go out to you and his family. Thank you again.
Posted by Lysa Napolitano, Call Coordinator ~ Century 21 Sundance (Century 21 Sundance) over 3 years ago
My heart aches for his family and his loved ones. Gos bless them. My prayers will be with them tonight.
Posted by Gloria Price (long and foster) over 3 years ago

Julie

Its amazing how as strangers we can touch each other so deeply.   Thank you for sharing.. my heart aches for you and all Trevor's loved ones....  my thoughts are with you all

Posted by Desiree Daniels (RE/MAX Tri County) over 3 years ago
My heart goes out to Trevor's family.  What a shame to lost this incredible little baby.
Posted by Diane Bell, Hilton Head Real Estate, Bluffton (Charter 1 Real Estate, Hilton Head, Bluffton, SC) over 3 years ago
Julie, what a beautiful boy, and what a sadness that he was taken away from this world.  My heart reaches out to everyone who was touched by him, especially his family.  His family and loved ones will be in my prayers!
Posted by Chris Tesch College Station, Texas Real Estate (RE/MAX Bryan College Station) over 3 years ago
May God bless you, Trevor, and Trevor's family in this very difficult time.
Posted by John Caylor- Post Falls, ID Mortgages (Infinity Financial Group) over 3 years ago

Julie

I don't really know what to say here.  I am deeply sadened to hear this news.  While I knew of the severity of his condition, I somehow hoped that a match would be found, a cure, a miracle, or something that would save his life.  I guess the miracle was in his birth.  As you said Julie, A messenger was born on 10/14/06.  A little guy with a message for all of us.  

Trevor, I got your message little guy. Thanks. 

Rest well with the angels. 
Martin.

 

Posted by Martin Rodriguez - Senior Loan Consultant (Prospect Mortgage) over 3 years ago

Wow, what a sad yet inspiring story.  It's great to know that many stood up to the call to make a difference.  His life may have been short but he brought out good in people.

- Tchaka 

Posted by Tchaka Owen (Keller Williams Realty) over 3 years ago
What a touching post and beautiful sentiment.  Be at peace, sweet baby.
Posted by Rochell Heininger (Yellowbook) over 3 years ago
My heartfelt condolences to you and to the Kott family.  What a precious baby.  Thank you for sharing Trevor's inspiring story.
Posted by Yen Tran (Keller Williams) over 3 years ago

I spent the day absorbing the news.  I just really wanted to say thank you to everyone who commented here.  I forwarded this on to Trevor's parents and grandmother. 

Thank you all from the bottom of my heart for helping keep Trevor alive in our hearts.

~Julie

Posted by Julie Ferenzi (CENTURY 21 Hometown) over 3 years ago

Julie, Please keep me updated on the Bone Marrow Donar drive? I would love to register, but like others the 57.00 is a bit out of reach for me and if I can get it done free that would be great! I work with Midori so you can reach me through her. I also work hard at raising money for St. Jude and they are working very hard to find a cure for AML: Leukemias / Lymphomas: Acute Myeloid Leukemia (AML)

Our recent events on April 14th/15 raised just over 32,000 for St. Jude, it should be $33,000 the end of next week. I work on these events for children like Trevor, for the same reason Danny Thomas founded this hospital.

Posted by Lysa Napolitano, Call Coordinator ~ Century 21 Sundance (Century 21 Sundance) over 3 years ago
What a beautiful sweet little boy.  God has called his angel home.  My prayers are with the Kott family.  May they take comfort in knowing they will be with Trevor again one day.  God Bless.
Posted by Vickie Kessinger (Prudential Carolinas) over 3 years ago

Wow Lysa that is fantastic! 

My bone marrow drive is on Saturday May 19th, 2007 at Meadow View Elementary School in Plainfield, IL.  There is no fee for testing at this drive to become a registered donor.  I hope we run out of test kits before we run out of willing registrants!

Trevor will live on in all of the lives that are saved in his memory.

Posted by Julie Ferenzi (CENTURY 21 Hometown) over 3 years ago
Julie - such a cute kid.....very sad.  ron
Posted by Ron Lipscomb (EXIT Realty) over 3 years ago
Julie, so the no cost sign up is only in IL? I've bookmarked the site, I may just go ahead and pay the 58 dollars and sign up anyway. We never know who's life we save. I'm also going to make the members of my committee aware of this drive and suggest they do the same. Trevor is someones angle, because of him, more will sign up with the registry.
Posted by Lysa Napolitano, Call Coordinator ~ Century 21 Sundance (Century 21 Sundance) over 3 years ago
There is one certanty on this earth and that is when I child passes he passes directly into the hands of the lord. I cannot imagine the pain the family is going through. It is painful for me to even think of something happening to one of my children. God bless those that came to help. They to will be looked kindly upon by god. Also I encourage every one to go to Trevor's web site and watch the picture album. I am 6'2" 300 lbs and I had tears in my eyes
Posted by T.U.P. Realty over 3 years ago
It breaks my heart when I hear stories like this - but at least Trevors family had the opportunity to meet him although his little life was tough - he will be loved for eternity
Posted by Donna Oehler "AV Foreclosure Specialist" (Keller Williams Realty) over 3 years ago
Losing a child is one of hardest things that a parent could ever have to face in this life, and what a precious little one. My heart goes out to the family, and I pray that they will find comfort that in his short life, his innocence did not go unnoticed, and he rests peacefully in the arms of the comforter, our Lord.
Posted by Portland Oregon Real Estate | Alecia Barnes - Broker (Phommany & Phommany Realty, Ltd.) over 3 years ago
Julie, thank you for updating us. I'm so sorry that the news was not better. What a great little fighter Trevor was.  Now he is comfortable and at peace. I will remember his family and you in my prayers.
Posted by Mary Pope-Handy, ABR, CRS, ePRO, SRES, ASP (Sereno Group Real Estate) over 3 years ago
God bless his family!
Posted by Kat DeLong, Lake Arrowhead Realtor DRE# 01235311 (Mountain Country Realty, Lake Arrowhead CA) over 3 years ago

What a wonderful and terrible story all at the same time.  Thank you for sharing Trevor with all of us.

Posted by Syracuse/ Central New York Real Estate| Christina Lackey (Coldwell Banker Prime Properties) over 3 years ago
I'm so sorry for your loss.  I am a Hodgkin's Lymphoma survivor and am all too familiar with battling cancers of the blood.  Keep sharing his story, maybe you can help raise funds for others with the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society.  I have worked with them and they are wonderful.
Posted by Liane Jamason, REALTORĀ® ~ Tampa, FL ~ TampaRealEstateFinder.com (Keller Williams Realty ) over 3 years ago

Make sure you all have you donor cards filled out  (and for MN on your driver's license) and your friends and family know your wishes to donate.

So sorry for the loss of such a young one  - thank you for sharing with us.

Posted by Kathleen Lordbock Keller Williams Realty Brainerd Lakes ( KW REALTOR/Staging & Short Sale Specialist) over 3 years ago

~ Angels are Weeping ~

I hear the angels weeping.
I see their heads bow'd low.
Their wings surround
Those brok'n-heart'd,
So wound'd by this FOE!

I see the angels huddl'd
Near a mother, in such pain,
Because the child
She searches for
May ne'er be found again.

I hear the brush of angel's wings,
So near they are to you.
GOD sent them there
To minister for these
Trials you're going through.

I hear the angels saying,
"Brave ONES, don't let hope die.
GOD will ne'er leave
Nor forsake you.
On this YOU CAN Rely!!!"

Copyright © 2002 by Mary Carter Mizrany~

My Prayers to Trevor's family

Posted by Laura Clark (Mobile LoanSigning) over 3 years ago

It's been quite few days since I've been back to comment on this post.  I think it's amazing how many new comments this post still receives every day.  It's just a testament of what a special little boy Trevor was, and will always be.

Thank you all again!

Posted by Julie Ferenzi (CENTURY 21 Hometown) over 3 years ago

This is heartbreaking.  I am so sad for his family.  However, it does inspire me to keep an eye out for marrow drives and do what I can. 

It is amazing how he has made a difference. 

Posted by Ann Guy (NA) over 3 years ago
May the God of all comfort hold this family tightly in his arms.  He is our refuge and our strength.  His ways are not our ways, but He does promise that He is always near to those who seek Him with all their hearts.  May the Lord Jesus Christ bless and keep this family, and find rest in the knowledge that their sweet baby is with his creator. 
Posted by Anonymous over 3 years ago
Julie, it's stories like these keep sending me back to the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society's Team in Training. Each year, I help raise money for leukemia and blood cancer research while training for an endurance race. We've come a long way with research these days, but even with all the advancements we still have tragic stories like this. Like I said, that's why I keep going back. This organization is truly inspirational and does so much. If anyone is interested in helping me raise money for this cause this year, please let me know as I am raising funds as we speak. Sorry to hear of this heartbreaking event.
Posted by Jessica Swesey over 3 years ago

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